Tired Feet Sore Eyes......

What would you do or react if a close friend of yours is having a death in the family, your kid is missing you terribly and both of them are terribly sick at the same time? And your mum wants you to be around as there is someone is accusing her for a crime that she never commit by sending vulgar sms and call her every single hour, and she is down (which means you need to be around so that she will fine at least) Would you
a) walk away and pretend that is not your problem?
b) if they owe you money, you just straight away ask for it, without any sympathy or giving them a cool down period, perhaps it should be later?

That was something that does not happen everyday, and perhaps a little patience would be the best remedy that we can offer to soothe the pain and the grievance. I was thinking the same thing all over again. If I am tight down with cash and one of my family's member passed away or my kid needs me more than others, and my rent is due till this date so and so, I would not have much time to think of that latter petty issue. Its life and death matter. But somehow, it give me an important lesson here, where people regards you to be important as to dollar and cents. And it is not worth of finding yourself being yelled at, i am tired of all this....